Fertility Donor conception and surrogacy

Donor conception and surrogacy are vital fertility treatment options for individuals and couples on non-traditional pathways to parenthood.

Donor conception and surrogacy

What is donor conception?

Donor conception involves the altruistic contribution of another person who provides eggs, sperm, or an embryo to an individual or couple who would be otherwise unable to have a baby. 

You may consider treatment with donor eggs if you:

  • Are an older woman and unable to conceive with your own eggs
  • Are in a couple from the LGBTQIA+ community where neither partner produces eggs
  • Have a high risk of passing down a genetic defect to an embryo created with your own eggs
  • Are a single man considering solo fatherhood
  • Are in a couple affected by female infertility

Fertility treatment with donor sperm can be an option if you:

  • Are a single woman pursuing solo motherhood
  • Are in a couple from the LGBTQIA+ community where neither partner produces sperm
  • Are at risk of passing on a faulty gene to an embryo created with your own sperm
  • Are in a couple affected by male infertility

The donor can be personally known to you or chosen through a fertility clinic. In partnership with Genea Fertility, Dr Parmar can provide access to egg and sperm donors through Genea’s donor program or reputable international donor programs.

How does donor conception work?

Depending on your background and fertility journey so far, conceiving with donor sperm or eggs may be an obvious pathway. Conversely, donor conception may only be considered after having tried fertility treatment with your own eggs and sperm. 

Once Dr Parmar has confirmed that donor conception is the most suitable option for you, you will be referred to the experienced donor team at Genea. The process of becoming a donor recipient may be rigorous, but is designed to protect you and give you the best chance of having a healthy baby. 

Accessing donor sperm or donor eggs involves:

  • Two mandatory counselling sessions to understand the legal and psychosocial implications of this treatment pathway; if you are conceiving with the help of a known donor, your donor will also have both independent and joint counselling sessions
  • Selecting your donor from Genea’s local egg or sperm bank, or from one of their international partners, if undergoing treatment with a clinic-recruited donor
  • A session with a genetic counsellor to understand any genetic considerations of conceiving with the eggs or sperm of this particular donor

If you are selecting your donor from one of Genea’s egg or sperm donor programs, you will be given access to donor profiles. These profiles include details such as physical characteristics, personality traits, occupation, and education level. All donors are thoroughly screened before being admitted into a donor program.

Once cleared, you can proceed with your fertility treatment. This may involve in vitro fertilisation (IVF), intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI), or donor insemination (also known as intrauterine insemination or IUI).

What is surrogacy?

Surrogacy is when another woman carries your embryo through pregnancy. This can be an option for those who cannot go through a pregnancy because of medical reasons or for single men or ‌same-sex male couples where neither partner can carry a pregnancy. The sperm and egg used to develop the embryo can be provided by yourself and your partner, or with the use of donor eggs or sperm. The surrogate’s own egg cannot be used. 

There are various legal regulations associated with surrogacy arrangements to protect everyone involved – you as the recipient, your surrogate, and your child. Before entering into a surrogacy agreement, it is a legal requirement that both you and your intended surrogate seek independent legal counsel. Surrogates cannot receive financial incentive but may be reimbursed for reasonable expenses related to the surrogacy arrangement. 

In Australia, surrogacy can only be undertaken if the intended parent(s):

  • Are unable to carry a pregnancy due to a medical condition 
  • Is a single male seeking solo fatherhood
  • Are a same-sex male couple
  • Have received approval from the Victorian Patient Review Panel

Dr Parmar will review your eligibility with you in detail during your initial consultation.

 How to find a surrogate in Australia

Surrogacy in Australia is governed by laws and regulations that may differ slightly between states and territories. One of these is the prohibition of commercial surrogacy, meaning your surrogate’s involvement must be completely altruistic and voluntary. It also means that you cannot advertise publicly for a surrogate, so most people will find a surrogate from their own social circles, whether a family member or friend. 

Some people may consider finding a surrogate overseas. Though it may feel easier to connect with a surrogate in a country that does permit commercial surrogacy, the legal implications of this can be particularly complex as surrogacy arrangements in certain nations are not as strictly regulated as they are in Australia. Before making a decision, it is important to ensure you are fully aware of the relevant laws in your surrogate’s country, including the rights and obligations of both parties. 

Frequently Asked Questions

Yes, IVF is often the treatment of choice when conceiving with donor eggs or sperm, though some situations may be more appropriate for ICSI. IUI can also be a suitable treatment approach for women conceiving with donor sperm who have no fertility issues that are likely to impact fertilisation. This is commonly termed donor insemination.

Some of the key laws for surrogacy in Victoria include:

  • There should be no financial incentive for the surrogate 
  • There must be a legitimate need for the surrogacy, such as having a medical condition which prevents the intended mother from safely carrying a pregnancy, or you are part of a same-sex couple wanting to have a child where neither partner can carry a pregnancy
  • The surrogate must be over 25 years of age and have given birth before
  • The surrogacy arrangement needs to be approved by the Patient Review Panel
  • All parties need to obtain legal independent advice and counselling before consenting to the surrogacy arrangement

Choosing your donor can be both exciting and overwhelming. There are two approaches to finding a donor – a patient-recruited donor is one personally known to you, while a clinic-recruited donor is one selected via a sperm or egg donor program, such as the one provided by Genea. 

When selecting your donor, consider what is of utmost priority to you and what is of secondary importance. This may include:

  • Personality traits
  • Physical characteristics
  • Academic or professional achievements
  • Ethnic heritage
  • A biological connection to yourself or your partner (as in the case of considering a family member as a patient-recruited donor)
  • A greater degree of separation and privacy (as is the case of considering a clinic-recruited donor)

Donor conception laws require that identifying information about your donor be available to your donor-conceived child once they become of age (either 16 or 18 years old depending on the state). This does not mean that your child needs to reach out to the donor, or that the donor has the right to contact your child. However, many donor-conceived children do become curious about their biological parent at some stage and appreciate the opportunity to discover more about their heritage.

Need a sperm donor, egg donor, or surrogate to grow your family?

No matter where you are in your fertility journey, Dr Parmar is here to help. From infertility to solo parenthood to fertility support for the LGBTQIA+ community, if you need help growing your family, contact Dr Parmar’s rooms today.

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